tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-69333397306588455722024-03-14T01:40:26.567-07:00Wendy Summers ExposedBy nights I work as a transsexual webcam girl. Here I'll be sharing the perverted thoughts dancing across my brain and also my insights into people and gender that I gain from talking with so many people.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-72532383995649288552012-01-27T09:53:00.000-08:002012-01-27T09:53:57.454-08:00So Long (and Thanks for all the Fish!) (For Here Anyway)For those paying attention, there's been some changes going on. Sometime later today my website Wendysummers.com will be going dark as we prepare to relaunch it as a new membership website a few weeks from now!<br />
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As a part of that switchover, my blog is also moving to a new home at www.wendysummers.net. Featuring my blog entries; twitter pics; news feed - Wendysummers.net will become News Central for everything going on with me!<br />
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I look forward to seeing you there!Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-65384788278967299842012-01-04T14:21:00.000-08:002012-01-04T14:21:20.342-08:00New Fan Poetry<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-S8rA6f9MwM8/TwTIqa-FNJI/AAAAAAAAAG0/rYvZLTsay_Q/s1600/Wendy-Summers-Toe-riffic009.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-S8rA6f9MwM8/TwTIqa-FNJI/AAAAAAAAAG0/rYvZLTsay_Q/s320/Wendy-Summers-Toe-riffic009.jpg" width="220" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Roses are red, </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>The sky is blue. </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Let me bend you over </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>and stick my cock in you.</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><br />
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</i></div><div style="text-align: center;">via Twitter</div>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-42235293879438876822012-01-04T12:12:00.000-08:002012-01-04T12:14:12.537-08:00My Own Little World and Grateful For It.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ODkkCrlB49Y/TwSrfRHCrDI/AAAAAAAAAEU/s1pzmcUNk8Q/s1600/Av-Wendy-Summers-Redhead-150.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ODkkCrlB49Y/TwSrfRHCrDI/AAAAAAAAAEU/s1pzmcUNk8Q/s1600/Av-Wendy-Summers-Redhead-150.jpg" /></a></div>So I woke up on January 1st to a Best New Face: Up and Cummer nomination for the Tranny Awards. I'll be honest; it kind of blew my mind. While I expected to get a nom for the Non-Stereotypical Porn Star, I didn't think I had a snowball's chance of getting named for this one.<br />
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It got me thinking how grateful I am for all of you... all of my fans. And that's on a lot of levels. The award nominations are great and thanks to those of you who put me up for it. But what I'm truly grateful for is the support you all have shown throughout the year.<br />
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<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-aAzwiV1P-ko/TwSroStGQiI/AAAAAAAAAEg/7mBibQkVUeY/s1600/Wendy-Summers-Potter018.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-aAzwiV1P-ko/TwSroStGQiI/AAAAAAAAAEg/7mBibQkVUeY/s200/Wendy-Summers-Potter018.jpg" width="137" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Waiving My Wand" Prod: Rob</td></tr>
</tbody></table>The reality is I'm kind of off in my own little corner of the porn world. While I'm using respected Producers in the Industry and producing material of the same quality of traditional websites, I'm not really producing the same flavor of content they do. What I put on film is vey much me. I put the nuances of my personality and interests right there on the screen. I shoot fun things because, well, if its not fun, why the fuck am I doing this?<br />
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What's been fascinating to me, is that you all have supported my work, both by your comments around the web and by voting with your dollars by joining my fan club. Everytime I've raised my production budgets, I've seen new fans join the ranks and they've let me take things to greater and greater heights. I get to make something I love doing thanks to you. All of you are as much a part of my sucess as my hard work.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cmqGMK9lWL4/TwSsB3mJGAI/AAAAAAAAAEs/E0osly9B3_U/s1600/Profile_PS_160x200.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cmqGMK9lWL4/TwSsB3mJGAI/AAAAAAAAAEs/E0osly9B3_U/s1600/Profile_PS_160x200.jpg" /></a></div>One year ago, I was entirely unknown. I was just a lil' fish in the big webcam pool called iFriends. By the summer, I became one of the better known faces on iFriends. Not only was I the first TS invited into their Adult Star Program, but I was one of the first chat hosts in it, period. The team at iFriends saw what I was doing, and they believed in me. It's let me ascend further this year than I could have dreamed. I'm thankful for what Christine, Jamie, Amanda, all the awesome guys in tech support, the creative team doing my promos, and all the other unseen faces at iFriends have done for me.<br />
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<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vl00tbTboCE/TwStAQR1xDI/AAAAAAAAAE4/DhnHGOeyYTA/s1600/Wendy-Summers-Chess036.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vl00tbTboCE/TwStAQR1xDI/AAAAAAAAAE4/DhnHGOeyYTA/s320/Wendy-Summers-Chess036.jpg" width="217" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"A Nice Set" Prod: Rob</td></tr>
</tbody></table>And as started to produce my own content, I ventured off of iFriends and continued to encounter folks willing to come along and join me on the journey: Brittany St. Jordan, who has been very much a mentor to me, said this to me when I sought her advice: "If you want to give it a shot talk to Grooby. If you like it and want to keep going with it then great and if you find it isn't your cup of tea then you can walk away and keep on doing what you do now." I took her advice and loved it.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Student of Anatomy" Prod: Tony Vee</td></tr>
</tbody></table>On that shoot, I met the first Producer who would help me on my path - Rob. We immediately clicked and on the spot I brought him on board to shoot content for me. We managed to shoot 5 sets over 2 days before circumstances in his life drew him away from porn. He taught me how to really draw my personality into the work we were doing; Working with him on "A Nice Set" really hammered home the importance of storytelling with what I shoot. I'm grateful for the experience I gained with him.<br />
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When I started putting that work online, things boomed for me. Overnight my fan club membership doubled. I had budget, but no Producer. Tony Vee was willing to step in and rack out a few sets for me. Under Tony's direction I started to learn a bit about posing and the importance of tits, ass and cock. When it gets down to it, isn't that what TS porn is about?<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Captain Cavegirl" Prod: Remy</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Within a few weeks I found my new "go-to" Producer, Remy. She's probably going to not be happy because I mentioned her (she definitely shies away from the limelight), but she's a major piece to why things have come together. She knows her craft and she's definitely pushed me as a model. She's nurturing when she needs to be but has also pushed and forced me to grow in ways I didn't know I needed. Hell she's humored me when need be (our now infamous 8 sets in 26 hours fiasco).<br />
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Late in the year, I added another Producer to the mix, Sergio. My first foot-centric shoot with Rob had done so well, I decided to stretch beyond the TS industry and found Sergio, a foot fetish Producer. Sergio hadn't given much thought to TS work prior shooting for me, but he showed he has the chops for it when his first set generated the highest fan response ever for me.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Toe Dye" Prod: Sergio</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">From www.shemalestrokers.com</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">From www.shemaleyum.com</td></tr>
</tbody></table>In terms of shooting for other companies: I've had 3 solo sets and 1 hardcore set go live across two different websites. All have been well-received. I'm grateful for the opportunities provided to me there by Grooby and She-Male Strokers. Both companies have been amazing to work with and given fan response, I'm sure I'll do so again.<br />
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There's another person who's helped make 2011 successful for me. Late in the year I brought in Wendy Williams as my publicist - thanks to her my name is seeing more exposure than ever before. She's someone who has had longevity in this field -- and there's a reason for it. I'm lucky to have her on board.<br />
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Looking back it's been one hell of a year. I’m grateful for it; grateful to my fans, my friends, and the Industry professionals who've supported me. Best of all? I see no signs of this success ending any time soon.<br />
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And that's fucking awesome!<br />
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Wendy<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Toe-Riffic!" Prod: Rob</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"Set Phasers for Cum" Prod: Remy</td></tr>
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</div>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-75650940538920342652012-01-02T08:09:00.000-08:002012-01-02T08:09:04.084-08:00Transwomen and the straight guys who dig us<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LSYYZn0VvhU/TwEh4iFZ9RI/AAAAAAAAADw/WYLqOJvsvVM/s1600/Profile_PS_160x200.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LSYYZn0VvhU/TwEh4iFZ9RI/AAAAAAAAADw/WYLqOJvsvVM/s200/Profile_PS_160x200.jpg" width="160" /></a></div>So whenever I am on iFriends, they put this ad on iFriends front page letting folks know I am on. Apparently, not everyone knows what TS stands for: LOL What can I say: I'm a trap ;).<br />
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Typically when folks first enter my chat room, I tend to greet them with my cock. (No matter which cam site, there's typically some fake TS's on there -- I like to establish my credentials ;)).<br />
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Last night, I entirely shocked someone who clicked through.<br />
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"WOAH" he typed. <br />
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"Not expecting the cock, were you?"<br />
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"No. Thanks."<br />
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I removed my top revealing my breasts.<br />
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"Wait, are those real breasts?"<br />
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We proceeded to talk for a few minutes... I kept my cock out of view but showed my ass & my tits. It was pretty clear his curiosity (and something else) was raised. He eventually freaked and ran from the chat room. But in my experience, he'll be back ;). Guys like him always are.<br />
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There's such a stigma out there regarding cocks, and since we TS's have them, us too. But a large chunk of my webcam traffic comes from guys who never considered a TS before. There's an intrigue surrounding us.<br />
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I think the biggest stigma is the perception that it's a gay thing. But the reality is a TS woman has the energy of a woman. It changes the dynamic... ask any gay male - they want nothing to do with a TS. Finding a TS sexually appealing is definitely not a gay thing.<br />
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I've been lucky -- I have the benefit of no one having a clue I'm transsexual until I drop my pants. I've found both in my personal and professional life, that so long as your pretty, guys tend to care a lot less about what's between your legs. Enough, at least, to experiment and explore and have a little fun.<br />
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Are TS's for everyone, no? But there are a lot of guys who can and do dig us. I suspect that last night, I opened up the eyes of another one.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-45274545190298484162011-12-28T12:22:00.000-08:002011-12-28T12:23:21.988-08:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VenEK9Mdtfc/Tvt5lOzigqI/AAAAAAAAADk/UQnrFD1VE-M/s1600/Av-Wendy-Summers-Redhead-200.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-VenEK9Mdtfc/Tvt5lOzigqI/AAAAAAAAADk/UQnrFD1VE-M/s200/Av-Wendy-Summers-Redhead-200.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><a href="http://www.wendysummers.com/wendy-summers-performance-schedule-newsletter-archives/archive/view/listid-2-an-email-list-notifying-you-when-wendy-is-performing-live-on-webcam/mailid-31-newsletter-december-25-2011.html">My latest newsletter is now up on my website</a>... In this issue: a new Shemale Yum set; my first DVD release; my holiday 2011 set and oh yeah.... <a href="http://trannyawards.com/">GO NOMINATE ME FOR THE "MISS NOT YOUR STEREOTYPICAL TS PORNSTAR" AWARD FOR <b>THE TRANNY AWARDS</b></a>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-8790160653749487472011-12-27T14:00:00.000-08:002011-12-27T14:00:22.135-08:00Best Christmas Present Evah!For those who don't know, we're currently redesigning my website and as a piece of it the team at iFriends was willing to design me a special co-branded promo to blend into the website. They delivered it to me this morning and all I can say is friggin awesome! These images were not shot intended to be a strip tease but the iFriends creative team strung them together as such and it looks great. Thanks to everyone who helped make this happen!<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Occ374FHUtM/Tvo_UKCJWkI/AAAAAAAAADQ/_oFYcjBgZGk/s1600/Profile_PS_160x200.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Occ374FHUtM/Tvo_UKCJWkI/AAAAAAAAADQ/_oFYcjBgZGk/s1600/Profile_PS_160x200.jpg" /></a></div><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HoIPGdjnIiw/Tvo_VxVHpJI/AAAAAAAAADY/HBU7zjfbob8/s1600/Profile_PS_200x200.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HoIPGdjnIiw/Tvo_VxVHpJI/AAAAAAAAADY/HBU7zjfbob8/s1600/Profile_PS_200x200.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.ifriends.net/membrg/ShowClub_v2_custom.dll?t=site/fanclubs/starpages/showclub/Main&pclub=WENDYTGNEXTDOOR&pstyle=home&pccAcct=WENDYTGNEXTDOOR&pccSVC=PPS&pccArt=pID_8690&pSiteCode=iFriendsV2" target="_parent"><img alignment="left" border="0" height="600" src="http://www.ifriends.net/Refer.dll?Acct=&mode=3&SVC=PPS&art=pID_8690&url=http://ccimages.ifriends.net/if_v2/CC/V2/Creative/12_2011/8690/8690.gif" width="300" /></a>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-27459057510619184712011-12-25T11:28:00.000-08:002011-12-25T11:28:02.994-08:00Happy Holidays!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-08qx5QxjbNs/Tvd5KxTVQ7I/AAAAAAAAADE/uFiL_oGQvZk/s1600/Wendy-Summers-Holiday041.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-08qx5QxjbNs/Tvd5KxTVQ7I/AAAAAAAAADE/uFiL_oGQvZk/s320/Wendy-Summers-Holiday041.jpg" width="220" /></a></div>No matter what holiday you are celebrating this time of year, know that my Festivus pole is always ready for a party ;). May your season be safe and joyful. WendyWendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-72932297174145471612011-12-14T12:16:00.000-08:002011-12-14T12:16:25.548-08:00Like Weeds<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-b1xHhTa4aiQ/TukDyVxtgtI/AAAAAAAAAB8/0Jh1I10U5j0/s1600/Wendy-Summers-Toe-riffic002.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-b1xHhTa4aiQ/TukDyVxtgtI/AAAAAAAAAB8/0Jh1I10U5j0/s320/Wendy-Summers-Toe-riffic002.jpg" width="220" /></a></div>I have very few friends who are transsexual. Last night one of those friends came over for dinner. I haven't seen her for nearly four months. <br />
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We end up talking about our jobs and lives. She marveled that despite being trans, how normal my life was. She thought I should write a book to show transwomen are just like everyone else. <br />
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Thought of my webcamming and porn experience raced through my head. I just responded, "yeah, I'm probably not the best spokesperson."<br />
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She thought I was just having a low self-esteem moment (to be fair she doesn't know me all that well - I'm majorly self-confident). She pressed, pointing out details of my life which are exemplary. Finally I confessed to her the details of the past 12 months of my life. That in addition to my day job I've risen to be one of the top TS webcam models and that I was slowly dipping my toes into the world of porn.<br />
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Her jaw dropped.<br />
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I braced myself for the usual barrage of "harming the community"; "sexualization of transsexuals"; "do you think so little of yourself". <br />
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Her eyes bulged. then she exclaimed, "You're like the woman on Weeds!"<br />
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It continually surprises me how many people are fascinated by the duality of my life. I hear it from fans and from friends. I have one foot in the world of Corporate America and another foot in the world of Adult Entertainment. Connected to both, but belonging to neither. It seems exotic to people.<br />
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Maybe it's because I've spent much of my life living outside of the ordinary; of never fitting in perfectly with the world around me. Maybe it's because I care so little of what others think about me. Maybe I'm just oblivious. <br />
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I looked back at her. "Yeah, maybe. I guess so," I agreed with her.<br />
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Although inside, secretly, I knew better.<br />
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I'm more like Sydney in Alias. ;)Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-35132708025611685332011-12-08T08:47:00.000-08:002011-12-08T08:47:45.547-08:005 Things (and their corollaries) I've learned from Webcamming<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bLZ6WpKJWTg/TuDpkHTpkvI/AAAAAAAAABk/Xevhpd2tFGY/s1600/Wendy-Summers-Trek26.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bLZ6WpKJWTg/TuDpkHTpkvI/AAAAAAAAABk/Xevhpd2tFGY/s400/Wendy-Summers-Trek26.jpg" width="266" /></a></div>1) If you can't hear me when you come into my chat room, your wife/ girlfriend is likely in the next room.<br />
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1.1) If you can hear me but say I'm too loud, your wife/ girlfriend is likely in the next room so you're using earphones.<br />
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2) Whatever is your personal kink, no matter how perverse you feel it must be, someone else has asked me to do far, far more perverse things.<br />
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2.1) I've yet to not enjoy any legal requests made of me ;).<br />
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3) It doesn't matter if I broadcast in HD or just a High Quality feed; if I give you a good show you won't care.<br />
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3.1) Many parts of the MidWest still are on dial-up.<br />
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4) Guys who don't realize I'm TS frequently enter my Video Chat.<br />
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4.1) More than half will still stay even after they find out.<br />
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4.2) Half that do leave only do so after they actually see my cock.<br />
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5) Self care during a long webcam session is important.<br />
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5.1) A tall cool cup of water is the second best thing I can do for myself when camming.<br />
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5.2) A thick soothing creme applied to my peen between fans is the first best thing I can do for myself when camming.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-86277607530074287842011-12-06T09:11:00.000-08:002011-12-06T09:11:51.580-08:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/web/Wendy-Summers-n-Sadie-Hawkins.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/web/Wendy-Summers-n-Sadie-Hawkins.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
I have to admit I'm really excited for my hardcore webcam show tonight with Sadie on iFriends. I'm picking her up from the train station at 5PM... I have to wait 5 full hours before we get to have fun with each other -- I hope I can control myself.<br />
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Don't miss our show at 10pm Eastern tonight, exclusively on <a href="http://www.ifriends.net/VISITME/WENDYTGNEXTDOOR">iFriends.</a>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-2081177040984550752011-12-04T12:03:00.000-08:002011-12-04T12:03:11.125-08:00New Interview with Xcritic just went up!Apache Warrior of xcritic.com just put up an interview with me. <a href="http://www.xcritic.com/columns/column.php?columnID=2925">Go check it out</a>!Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-22077279900738881152011-12-03T13:35:00.000-08:002011-12-03T13:35:07.827-08:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/web/Wendy-Summers-n-Sadie-Hawkins.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/web/Wendy-Summers-n-Sadie-Hawkins.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>If you missed our hardcore webcam show last month, you'll get second chance to see myself and the ever sexy Sadie Hawkins as she bangs my ass live on <a href="http://ifriends.net/VISITME/WENDYTGNEXTDOOR">iFriends.net on December 6, 2011 at 10PM Eastern time</a>. Since our last show, Sadie's been rising as one of the top new TS stars with wildly popular sets on Shemale Strokers and Shemale Yum. So many of you have asked for me to bring her back for another live cam show, how could I not oblige.<br />
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So here's your chance to see two of the hottest East Coast TS starlets get it on.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-86855741225151014562011-12-02T09:40:00.000-08:002011-12-02T09:40:22.620-08:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/thumbs/th_Strokers_wendysummers.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/thumbs/th_Strokers_wendysummers.jpg" /></a></div>My first set with Shemale Strokers is up on their website!<br />
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When I find the cupboards bare, I need to find something to feed you. Watch as I whip up something hot for you ;).<br />
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Like what you see? Make sure you check out the full set and HD video on <a href="http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=907930-0000%20&PA=wsummers&HTML=http://www.shemalestrokers.com">www.shemalestrokers.com</a>! and please remember to rate my set. The higher the rating and the more comments they get for my set, the more likely I am invited back to shoot with them again!Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-22338020071359754412011-12-02T06:52:00.000-08:002011-12-02T06:52:35.595-08:00New Fan Poetry<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/booty/booty34.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/booty/booty34.jpg" width="211" /></a></div>This one is courtesy of RobertLouis50 on Twitter:<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><em>There was a young lady called Wendy,</em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><em>whose ass was incredibly bendy,</em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><em>she'd fill it with things,</em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><em>that would make your eyes sting,</em></div><div style="text-align: center;"><em>and leave them from Monday to Wednesday.</em> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><em><br />
</em></div><div style="text-align: left;">I'm a sucker for poetry, so if I'm a muse for you, send me some!</div>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-45199186797326940712011-11-29T10:49:00.000-08:002011-11-29T10:49:52.278-08:00I've been a little tied up lately.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/thumbs/thBrimstone.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="250" src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/thumbs/thBrimstone.jpg" width="167" /></a></div>I spent the past weekend in The Kink Shop's booth at Brimstone (a BDSM gathering in Asbury Park, NJ). For most of the weekend the fine folks at Rope Extreme kept looking my way. By Sunday I found out why. After a couple of minutes of negotiation I agreed to be tied up. While I've done bondage before I had never done rope bondage and I was curious to give it a try. We started with a simple chest harness, then my arms were bound. Over the course of the afternoon the design became more intricate and before I knew it, I was on the floor being hogtied, including my hair.<br />
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I've always dug bondage and so adding the ropes was a no brainer. The fact that his ropework was beautiful made the whole thing all the more enjoyable. Hehehe can't wait to get tied up again.<br />
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See pics of me hogtied on <a href="http://www.wendysummers.com/sample-image-galleries-of-sexy-shemale-wendy-summers/70-sexy-geeky-shemale-wendy-summers-rope-bondage.html">my website</a>.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-82659857857702744002011-11-14T09:20:00.000-08:002011-11-14T09:20:17.784-08:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-onAlptEQUKY/TsFMWCDdbGI/AAAAAAAAABU/vji3y-U34FI/s1600/hotwendyxcopy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="187" width="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-onAlptEQUKY/TsFMWCDdbGI/AAAAAAAAABU/vji3y-U34FI/s200/hotwendyxcopy.jpg" /></a></div>If you want to keep tabs on all my latest news, make sure you check in at http://www.hotwendypr.com/. Wendy Williams has been handling PR for some of the biggest names in the TS porn industry including Mega Company SMC Productions and Porn Starlets: Jesse Flores, Amy Daly, Mandy Mitchell, Paris Pirelli, Michelle Austin, Brittany St. Jordan, Sunshyne Monroe and now YOURS TRULY. I'm excited to have someone with Wendy's experience working to help promote my work.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-29961075912912674962011-04-14T07:22:00.000-07:002011-04-14T07:22:28.916-07:00Simply because it makes me laugh<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://blog.stixblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/best-of-friday-5.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left:1em; margin-right:1em"><img border="0" height="630" width="500" src="http://blog.stixblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/best-of-friday-5.jpg" /></a></div>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-42911750486628930592011-03-18T10:39:00.000-07:002011-03-18T10:39:40.496-07:00My latest fan review<img src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/live/0110308_0018ws.jpg" align="left" width="200" />One of my fans just posted the following review:<br />
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"Wendy is the ultimate, you would be dumb if you didn't come into her room!!!"[1]<br />
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I think this is my favorite review to date.<br />
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[1] <a href="http://www.ifriends.net/membrg/UserReviewFC_v2_custom.dll?t=site/fanclubs/StarPages/AllAboutMe/UserReviews/main&pClub=WENDYTGNEXTDOOR">WENDYTGNEXTDOOR Reviews.</a>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-33613499280496338132011-03-16T22:13:00.000-07:002011-03-16T22:16:42.859-07:00You can't please them all...<img align="left" src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/live/0110314_2314ws.jpg" width="300" /> On ifriends, the base pay rate for transsexual performers is greater than that of genetic women and there is far less transsexual performers. As a result, there's a number of cis-women (non-transwomen -- cis being the Latin opposite of trans for those unfamiliar) posing as transsexuals. Less competition, higher pay... I can't say that I blame them. But it's created an interesting dynamic on the site.<br />
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Because watching me over a webcam is a safe, non commital way for someone curious about shemales to explore their fantasies regarding us, it's often a "first experience" for many men. As a result a certain percentage of the guys chatting there don't really understand how biology for transwomen works. They encounter the "fake" t-girls and presume it's normal for every shemale to be hard all the time. I recently received a complaint from a viewer that, when I removed my cock from my underwear it was soft and I was "a waste of time" because of that.<br />
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I struggled with this for a minute -- anyone who has visited my chatroom knows I'm very big on pleasing the person I'm with. But then I realized, my real strength is my authenticity. In chat I am genuine. I'm a real person with all my sexy quirks. Starting with a soft dick and letting my fans watch it grow and swell has always been a favorite of theirs. It shows I am real.<br />
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I do web camming because I love it. I'm less a performer and more me. And I like letting "me" show through.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-18609192491562278942011-02-21T09:56:00.000-08:002011-02-21T09:56:18.801-08:00I've been nuked!<p><img src="http://www.wendysummers.com/images/stories/vday2010/VDay09.jpg" align="left" width="200" border="2" style="border-color:#79079A"/ hspace="15" vspace="15">Apparently yesterday flickr decided they don't want me any more and my account joined the ranks of the nuked. I'm still trying to learn from flickr what happended -- once I know and can ensure it won't happen again, I will be back on flickr.</p><br />
<p>In the meantime, if you still want to see free pics of me you can continue to visit my website <a href="http://www.wendysummers.com">http://www.wendysummers.com</a>. I'll try to relink to new copies of the images on the older blogs as I get a chance.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-8750551289915652042011-01-28T06:48:00.000-08:002011-01-28T06:48:34.487-08:00Where the Hell has Wendy Been?<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/wendysummers/5375547056/" title="Costume Test Shot 1 by wendysummers, on Flickr"><img align="left" alt="Costume Test Shot 1" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5169/5375547056_35ffc29e10_z.jpg" width="300" /></a><p>Face front true believers... because you will not believe what's before your eyes! I'm back!</p><p>Although my blog hasn't been uodated in a few weeks, I've been very busy on-line. First off, I launched a new website <a href="http://www.wendysummers.com">WendySummers.com</a> I'm still in the process of getting my existing content up, but keep watching in the weeks to come as I add more photos, videos and a few other surprises there.</p><p>My second big piece of news is you can now reach me by telephone through ifriend's GetCloser feature. To learn how <a href="http://www.ifriends.net/membrg/ShowClub_v2_custom.dll? t=site/fanclubs/starpages/showclub/Main&pclub=WENDYTGNEXTDOOR" rel="nofollow">visit my fan club</a> and follow the Get Closer link.</p><p>I've been working on a few other things, I'm not quite ready to announce, but it's safe to say there are others cumming soon. Er other features coming soon!</p>Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-72071532165628648832010-12-25T05:01:00.000-08:002010-12-25T05:01:04.966-08:00Holiday Video *finally* up on ifriends<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/54829122@N07/5275705057/in/photostream/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5206/5275705057_38eaed277e.jpg" width="400" /> </a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Ifriends is in the process of several upgrades so there's been a few technical glitches delaying things, but my new solo video "Holiday Spirit" is now running as a replay on www.ifriends.net. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Images from "Holiday Spirit", a recorded performance, on Ifriends. The video and full set still images are available in my <a href="http://www.ifriends.net/membrg/ShowClub_v2_custom.dll?%20t=site/fanclubs/starpages/showclub/Main&pclub=WENDYTGNEXTDOOR" rel="nofollow">Fan Club</a> or watch it as a pay-per-minute replay by following the replay link below. </div><br />
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HAPPY HOLIDAYSWendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6933339730658845572.post-10110754414015622282010-12-25T04:48:00.000-08:002010-12-25T04:51:16.853-08:00Bet Dave was surprised.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://flickr.com/gp/54829122@N07/6M9kkd" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5003/5275704851_783cc08822.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Well, I've known from the vast number of guys who ask me out but were unaware I was a t-girl, that I fell into the category of a "trap". (For those unfamilar with 4chan's spawning of this transphobic meme, you can read all about it <a href="http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/its-a-trap">here</a>.) But today I've entered the realm of the elite few -- I'm now a world wide web hottie trap. <br />
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A website, www.manosterone.com runs a small widget in their sidebar which steals flickr photos of hot women with the title "Chicks My Friend Dave Has Banged." Several people have followed the embedded link back to my photostream and most likely used my pics for mastubration fodder.<br />
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I'm sure whenever the person responsible for selecting my pics realizes this mistake, they will remove me from the feed. So for posterity's sake, and for my own ego, here's screen caps of the two pics of me I found...<br />
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Happy Holidays!<br />
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Anyway I was just typing out a text and my phone chose "he" over "if". Given I use "if" an ungawdly amount of times when I write. I constantly have to go back and manually edit that. It's annoying. Even with t9, women are at a disadvantage with the system :(.<br />
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For those of you unfamiliar with the context: <a href="http://u.cs.biu.ac.il/~koppel/papers/male-female-text-final.pdf">a group of Israeli researchers worked out an algorithm which looks at word choice ad writing style to determine the gender of an author</a>. "If" is a word used to identify female writers. "He" is more frequently used by male writers.<br />
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I forgot you don't come here for my rambles. My apologies -- here's a gratuitous ass shot for you all.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The End</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Sometimes I like to sit and ponder.</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Recently I was discussing the concept of fantasies with a regular visitor to my chat room. In my experience, there are two types of fantasies. The first are acts you genuinely find arousing -- if the opportunity arose to experience these, you would jump at them in a heart beat. There'd be no hesitation -- no concern -- just pure, unadulterated pleasure. The second type of fantasy is one which is more cerebral in nature. These are fantasies which do rock your socks, but by the same token if you ever take them to the point of acting them out, you'd discover them not to be as pleasurable as the imagining.<br />
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What's interesting to me with the second flavor is why fantasize regarding something you never truly want to experience? I know I have some of these fantasies in my own life -- and I wanted to understand them a little better. The conclusion I've come to... these fantasies are really about emotional catharsis.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Does this inspire any fantasies?</td></tr>
</tbody></table>For those of you unfamiliar, catharsis is a Greek word which means to cleanse or purge. It entered the literary and dramaturgical lexicon in Aristotle's classic work <i>Poetics</i> -- where he examines how a story allows the reader (or viewer in the case of theatre or film) to use the dramatic events unfolding before them to release the audience's own pent up emotions.<br />
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Transsexual pornography is among the most popular genres of porn, yet only a small portion of the general population is into transsexuals. From what I can tell a portion of men who do fantasize about us fall into the realm of the second flavor of fantasy. It's very clear from where I sit that there's a cathartic release occurring for them.<br />
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The stereotype is that straight guys who like t-girls are in some way "gay or bisexual" in denial. And while sometimes that is in fact the emotional need the man is exploring through indirect means, it is hardly the only need I've observed people fulfilling through exploring transsexual fantasies. For some folks I chat with, it's a need to break from how ordinary their life feels to them -- for these people sex with a transsexual is an exotic experience which is far from typical. For other folks, they crave the moments of loss of control from an otherwise controlled life -- the cock is a strong icon related to power - seeing one juxtaposed against the soft feminine curves of a girl like me definitely evokes power play. And for others it could be a reason, I haven't even touched on here.<br />
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<a href="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5241/5207239328_9dd2db1081.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5241/5207239328_9dd2db1081.jpg" width="320" /></a>While I enjoy exploring these cathartic types of fantasies with people, I'll admit my favorite experiences tend to be with those where transsexuals are the first type of fantasy. In those cases, their interest is a true expression of desire -- it allows us to connect deeper and truly explore the interplay between us and our personalities.Wendy Summershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07402145370598293843noreply@blogger.com1