So Long (and Thanks for all the Fish!) (For Here Anyway)

For those paying attention, there's been some changes going on.  Sometime later today my website Wendysummers.com will be going dark as we prepare to relaunch it as a new membership website a few weeks from now!

As a part of that switchover, my blog is also moving to a new home at www.wendysummers.net.  Featuring my blog entries; twitter pics; news feed - Wendysummers.net will become News Central for everything going on with me!

I look forward to seeing you there!

New Fan Poetry

Roses are red,

The sky is blue. 

Let me bend you over

and stick my cock in you.

-Shoreguyforfun

via Twitter

My Own Little World and Grateful For It.

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Transwomen and the straight guys who dig us

So whenever I am on iFriends, they put this ad on iFriends front page letting folks know I am on. Apparently, not everyone knows what TS stands for: LOL  What can I say: I'm a trap ;).

Typically when folks first enter my chat room, I tend to greet them with my cock.  (No matter which cam site, there's typically some fake TS's on there -- I like to establish my credentials ;)).

Last night, I entirely shocked someone who clicked through.

"WOAH" he typed.

"Not expecting the cock, were you?"

"No.  Thanks."

I removed my top revealing my breasts.

"Wait, are those real breasts?"

We proceeded to talk for a few minutes... I kept my cock out of view but showed my ass & my tits.  It was pretty clear his curiosity (and something else) was raised.  He eventually freaked and ran from the chat room.  But in my experience, he'll be back ;).  Guys like him always are.

There's such a stigma out there regarding cocks, and since we TS's have them, us too.  But a large chunk of my webcam traffic comes from guys who never considered a TS before.  There's an intrigue surrounding us.

 I think the biggest stigma is the perception that it's a gay thing.  But the reality is a TS woman has the energy of a woman.  It changes the dynamic... ask any gay male - they want nothing to do with a TS.  Finding a TS sexually appealing is definitely not a gay thing.

I've been lucky -- I have the benefit of no one having a clue I'm transsexual until I drop my pants.  I've found both in my personal and professional life, that so long as your pretty, guys tend to care a lot less about what's between your legs.  Enough, at least, to experiment and explore and have a little fun.

Are TS's for everyone, no?  But there are a lot of guys who can and do dig us.  I suspect that last night, I opened up the eyes of another one.

My latest newsletter is now up on my website... In this issue: a new Shemale Yum set; my first DVD release; my holiday 2011 set and oh yeah.... GO NOMINATE ME FOR THE "MISS NOT YOUR STEREOTYPICAL TS PORNSTAR" AWARD FOR THE TRANNY AWARDS

Best Christmas Present Evah!

For those who don't know, we're currently redesigning my website and as a piece of it the team at iFriends was willing to design me a special co-branded promo to blend into the website. They delivered it to me this morning and all I can say is friggin awesome! These images were not shot intended to be a strip tease but the iFriends creative team strung them together as such and it looks great. Thanks to everyone who helped make this happen!

Happy Holidays!

No matter what holiday you are celebrating this time of year, know that my Festivus pole is always ready for a party ;).  May your season be safe and joyful.  Wendy

Like Weeds

I have very few friends who are transsexual.  Last night one of those friends came over for dinner.  I haven't seen her for nearly four months.

We end up talking about our jobs and lives.  She marveled that despite being trans, how normal my life was.  She thought I should write a book to show transwomen are just like everyone else.

Thought of my webcamming and porn experience raced through my head.  I just responded, "yeah, I'm probably not the best spokesperson."

She thought I was just having a low self-esteem moment (to be fair she doesn't know me all that well - I'm majorly self-confident).  She pressed, pointing out details of my life which are exemplary.  Finally I confessed to her the details of the past 12 months of my life.  That in addition to my day job I've risen to be one of the top TS webcam models and that I was slowly dipping my toes into the world of porn.

Her jaw dropped.

I braced myself for the usual barrage of "harming the community"; "sexualization of transsexuals"; "do you think so little of yourself".

Her eyes bulged. then she exclaimed, "You're like the woman on Weeds!"

It continually surprises me how many people are fascinated by the duality of my life.  I hear it from fans and from friends.  I have one foot in the world of Corporate America and another foot in the world of Adult Entertainment.  Connected to both, but belonging to neither.  It seems exotic to people.

Maybe it's because I've spent much of my life living outside of the ordinary; of never fitting in perfectly with the world around me.  Maybe it's because I care so little of what others think about me.  Maybe I'm just oblivious.  
To me it's just my life.  Nothing special.

I looked back at her.  "Yeah, maybe.  I guess so," I agreed with her.

Although inside, secretly, I knew better.

I'm more like Sydney in Alias. ;)

5 Things (and their corollaries) I've learned from Webcamming

1) If you can't hear me when you come into my chat room, your wife/ girlfriend is likely in the next room.


1.1) If you can hear me but say I'm too loud, your wife/ girlfriend is likely in the next room so you're using earphones.




2) Whatever is your personal kink, no matter how perverse you feel it must be, someone else has asked me to do far, far more perverse things.


2.1) I've yet to not enjoy any legal requests made of me ;).




3) It doesn't matter if I broadcast in HD or just a High Quality feed; if I give you a good show you won't care.


3.1) Many parts of the MidWest still are on dial-up.




4) Guys who don't realize I'm TS frequently enter my Video Chat.


4.1) More than half will still stay even after they find out.


4.2) Half that do leave only do so after they actually see my cock.




5) Self care during a long webcam session is important.


5.1) A tall cool cup of water is the second best thing I can do for myself when camming.


5.2) A thick soothing creme applied to my peen between fans is the first best thing I can do for myself when camming.

I have to admit I'm really excited for my hardcore webcam show tonight with Sadie on iFriends. I'm picking her up from the train station at 5PM... I have to wait 5 full hours before we get to have fun with each other -- I hope I can control myself.

Don't miss our show at 10pm Eastern tonight, exclusively on iFriends.

New Interview with Xcritic just went up!

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If you missed our hardcore webcam show last month, you'll get second chance to see myself and the ever sexy Sadie Hawkins as she bangs my ass live on iFriends.net on December 6, 2011 at 10PM Eastern time. Since our last show, Sadie's been rising as one of the top new TS stars with wildly popular sets on Shemale Strokers and Shemale Yum. So many of you have asked for me to bring her back for another live cam show, how could I not oblige.

So here's your chance to see two of the hottest East Coast TS starlets get it on.

My first set with Shemale Strokers is up on their website!

When I find the cupboards bare, I need to find something to feed you. Watch as I whip up something hot for you ;).

Like what you see? Make sure you check out the full set and HD video on www.shemalestrokers.com! and please remember to rate my set. The higher the rating and the more comments they get for my set, the more likely I am invited back to shoot with them again!

New Fan Poetry

This one is courtesy of RobertLouis50 on Twitter:

There was a young lady called Wendy,

whose ass was incredibly bendy,

she'd fill it with things,

that would make your eyes sting,

and leave them from Monday to Wednesday.

I'm a sucker for poetry, so if I'm a muse for you, send me some!

I've been a little tied up lately.

I spent the past weekend in The Kink Shop's booth at Brimstone (a BDSM gathering in Asbury Park, NJ). For most of the weekend the fine folks at Rope Extreme kept looking my way. By Sunday I found out why. After a couple of minutes of negotiation I agreed to be tied up. While I've done bondage before I had never done rope bondage and I was curious to give it a try. We started with a simple chest harness, then my arms were bound. Over the course of the afternoon the design became more intricate and before I knew it, I was on the floor being hogtied, including my hair.

I've always dug bondage and so adding the ropes was a no brainer.  The fact that his ropework was beautiful made the whole thing all the more enjoyable.  Hehehe can't wait to get tied up again.

See pics of me hogtied on my website.

If you want to keep tabs on all my latest news, make sure you check in at http://www.hotwendypr.com/. Wendy Williams has been handling PR for some of the biggest names in the TS porn industry including Mega Company SMC Productions and Porn Starlets: Jesse Flores, Amy Daly, Mandy Mitchell, Paris Pirelli, Michelle Austin, Brittany St. Jordan, Sunshyne Monroe and now YOURS TRULY. I'm excited to have someone with Wendy's experience working to help promote my work.

Simply because it makes me laugh

My latest fan review

One of my fans just posted the following review:

"Wendy is the ultimate, you would be dumb if you didn't come into her room!!!"[1]

I think this is my favorite review to date.


[1] WENDYTGNEXTDOOR Reviews.

You can't please them all...

On ifriends, the base pay rate for transsexual performers is greater than that of genetic women and there is far less transsexual performers. As a result, there's a number of cis-women (non-transwomen -- cis being the Latin opposite of trans for those unfamiliar) posing as transsexuals. Less competition, higher pay... I can't say that I blame them. But it's created an interesting dynamic on the site.

Because watching me over a webcam is a safe, non commital way for someone curious about shemales to explore their fantasies regarding us, it's often a "first experience" for many men. As a result a certain percentage of the guys chatting there don't really understand how biology for transwomen works. They encounter the "fake" t-girls and presume it's normal for every shemale to be hard all the time. I recently received a complaint from a viewer that, when I removed my cock from my underwear it was soft and I was "a waste of time" because of that.

I struggled with this for a minute -- anyone who has visited my chatroom knows I'm very big on pleasing the person I'm with. But then I realized, my real strength is my authenticity. In chat I am genuine. I'm a real person with all my sexy quirks. Starting with a soft dick and letting my fans watch it grow and swell has always been a favorite of theirs. It shows I am real.

I do web camming because I love it. I'm less a performer and more me. And I like letting "me" show through.

I've been nuked!

Apparently yesterday flickr decided they don't want me any more and my account joined the ranks of the nuked. I'm still trying to learn from flickr what happended -- once I know and can ensure it won't happen again, I will be back on flickr.

In the meantime, if you still want to see free pics of me you can continue to visit my website http://www.wendysummers.com. I'll try to relink to new copies of the images on the older blogs as I get a chance.