You can't please them all...

On ifriends, the base pay rate for transsexual performers is greater than that of genetic women and there is far less transsexual performers. As a result, there's a number of cis-women (non-transwomen -- cis being the Latin opposite of trans for those unfamiliar) posing as transsexuals. Less competition, higher pay... I can't say that I blame them. But it's created an interesting dynamic on the site.

Because watching me over a webcam is a safe, non commital way for someone curious about shemales to explore their fantasies regarding us, it's often a "first experience" for many men. As a result a certain percentage of the guys chatting there don't really understand how biology for transwomen works. They encounter the "fake" t-girls and presume it's normal for every shemale to be hard all the time. I recently received a complaint from a viewer that, when I removed my cock from my underwear it was soft and I was "a waste of time" because of that.

I struggled with this for a minute -- anyone who has visited my chatroom knows I'm very big on pleasing the person I'm with. But then I realized, my real strength is my authenticity. In chat I am genuine. I'm a real person with all my sexy quirks. Starting with a soft dick and letting my fans watch it grow and swell has always been a favorite of theirs. It shows I am real.

I do web camming because I love it. I'm less a performer and more me. And I like letting "me" show through.